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For years, I told myself I was fine.
Fine with working around school hours.
Fine with shrinking my ambition.
Fine with putting myself last.
Fine with shrinking my ambition.
Fine with putting myself last.
But I wasn’t fine. I was surviving. And I wasn’t alone.
As the founder of BabyBeats, a national postnatal wellbeing franchise, I’ve spent over a decade working alongside mothers, not just supporting their physical recovery after birth but witnessing their emotional recovery too. The identity shift. The guilt. The quiet grief for the woman they were before motherhood and the fear of wanting more while loving their children deeply. This February, we launch a podcast called I’m Fine (But…) because I realised something important: the conversations women are having in private are the conversations franchising needs to start having in public.
The Hidden Cost of “Being Fine”
In the franchising world, flexibility is often positioned as the solution. But flexibility without emotional permission isn’t freedom, it’s a rearranged cage. Many women don’t lack ambition. They lack a system that allows ambition to coexist with motherhood without shame. They feel pressure to be grateful while quietly grieving the loss of identity, income potential and autonomy. They are told they can “have it all” but rarely shown how to build it sustainably. Franchising has the potential to be the bridge between employment and entrepreneurship but only if we design models that reflect the emotional realities of the people we are inviting in.
Why I Changed the BabyBeats Franchise Model
In 2025, I redesigned the BabyBeats franchise model to remove financial barriers to entry by launching a zero franchise fee pathway. Not as a marketing tactic but as a values decision. The result? A 62% increase in franchise enquiries, six new franchisees in underserved regions and stronger retention and confidence across the network. What this confirmed is something I’ve believed for years: women are not short of capability they are short of access, support and permission. When franchising systems are designed around human needs, not just commercial ones, something powerful happens. Businesses grow. Confidence grows. Communities grow.
Why I Launched a Podcast About Identity… Not Just Business
I’m Fine (But…) is not a business podcast in the traditional sense. It’s not about funnels, scaling or hustle. It’s about identity. Ambition. Guilt. Freedom. Boundaries. And the emotional courage required to choose yourself especially when the world expects you not to. But here’s the thing: identity is business. You cannot build a sustainable business if you are constantly at war with who you are. You cannot lead others if you feel guilty for wanting more. You cannot grow something meaningful if you are shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s expectations. Franchising cannot be just about business systems. It must also be about emotional safety systems.
Freedom Isn’t Free… But It’s Worth It
One of the central ideas I return to both in my work and in the podcast… is this: freedom isn’t free. It costs you comfort. It costs you approval. It costs you the safety of staying small. But what you gain is ownership. Agency. Identity. And the ability to model something different to the next generation. Franchising has a responsibility and an opportunity to become the vehicle for that kind of freedom. Not the corporate version. The human version.
What the Franchising Industry Needs to Do Differently
If franchising wants to remain relevant to women, families and purpose led entrepreneurs, it must:
Design financially accessible entry points, build emotionally intelligent support systems, normalise identity shifts, not suppress them, create models that flex around life not the other way round and value impact as highly as income! Because people don’t buy franchises. They buy belief. And belief comes from feeling seen, supported and safe to grow.
Final Thought
I’m Fine (But…) is not just a podcast title, it’s a truth many franchisees are living inside.
The future of franchising isn’t just operational. It’s emotional. And when we make space for ambition, identity and real life, we don’t just build better businesses, we build better lives.